I don’t know if she has the same feelings for me…

This is really killing me…

So I’ve been talking to his this girl for awhile now and I’m really starting to like her and I think she’s starting to like me back.(think) we flirt allot and she’s even talking about heading over here in Chicago for C2E2 (Chicago Comic Con Entertainment Expo) and planning to cuddle with me in the hotel room…(and maybe more then that but moving on)

I don’t wanna tell her I want our to be more then friends yet cause I wanna wait till she gets here ( she lives in Scotland and I live in Chicago)…..

but here’s the thing…I’m not sure if she has the same feelings for me as I do for her.

I’ve told her stuff like “I can’t even put it into words how much you mean to me.”
or “I really hope I’m able to have you in my arms next year for c2e2, if you can you will be the only thing I will focus on. and if c2e2 can’t happen next year I’m gonna see what I can do if I can fly to scotland.”

and she acknowledges it….by saying stuff like “:D i saw, i d’awwed <3" or just a smiley face…or just a heart or a wink face….and really….that's it..

the only one thing she told me anything that seemed romantic was talking about cuddling with me at a hotel room…had the same sex dream I did….she calls me cutie….she uhh…-glomps- me witch I just looked up the meaning of the word and I guess it means a dramatic hug..and I think….(she a real tease) she talked about giving me a bj…yeah.

and one day we where talking about what makes us happy and I told her how she always makes my day better when I talk to her and she said this
"you certainly make mine better "

but…idk most times she likes to play video games then talk to people on facebook or skype….the other day she told me she had a dream about having sex with a good friend of her's…she even said she wasn't even supposed to have that kind of dream…same day she told me I make her day better….

what should I do? should I ask her when I get a chance today how does she feel about me?…I don't know how to think anymore…I hate the emoticon responses…they really bug the shit out of me…..

the one I mostly can't stand is "XD" now when I know I'm being funny I love seeing that emoticon….but when I'm flirting or trying to be serious, I wanna rage quit….I don't know what to do…

Category: Dating & Relationships asked December 5, 2013

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Robert Koredelewski jr

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Well there are a few possibilities about how she feels towards you. One is that she has strictly sexual feelings, and doesn't return the emotional aspect of it to you. That's not a good sign if you're really into this girl, as far as the long term situation goes. From what you've said, I can conclude that she definitely has sexual feelings towards you. If that's what you're looking for in a relationship, more power to you. However, that type of relationship can lead to a lot of complications, and often times leaves one if not both partners feeling really depressed and empty. And the second possibility is that she is emotionally interested in you. That seems unlikely given the context, but she did mention cuddling with you, which is usually a very emotionally triggering experience for couples. My advice is that you talk to her. Get a really good idea on how she feels about you, and if she sees a future with you. Make sure you clear things up, and hopefully you'll progress with her in this relationship. I wish you two the best. (:

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