I don’t know if I should leave her.

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I’ve been dating this girl for almost a year. Recently though, I haven’t been feeling as happy with our relationship. We’ve been separated for a couple months due to summer break but we saw each other again at the beginning of school but, I wasn’t really happy to see her. I’d hate to leave her as I’d hate myself to do this to her and I regret agreeing on a promise I can’t keep. I feel like a total douche for it but at the same time is it the right thing to do? I don’t know how she’ll take it but if something bad happens I feel I wouldn’t be able to live with it for the rest of my life. I wasn’t always there for her and I regret it, she’d be upset because of it, but this is major and I don’t know what to do.

Category: asked August 17, 2013

5 Answers

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If you don't feel the same way about her as you once did it's best for both of you to walk away. You deserve to be happy in a relationship and she deserves the same
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People grow apart, or grow together. It sounds like you two grew apart. Shit happens. Life moves on.
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If you dont feel as strongly for her anymore please just end it. Dont prolong or drag it out because it is just going to cause more hurt to both of you in the end. She does not deserve to be led on and you do not deserve to be tied to a person you no longer feel the same about.I wish you luck.
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Ask yourself why you feel differently! You were apart for a long time and a lot can change when that happens. If the reason you don't feel the same is something that can be fixed or talked about, then by all means do that! It can be rough to do what you have to. Sometimes that means walking away, and sometimes that means sticking it out and figuring out what needs to change to make things work. But in order for you to make that decision, you have to know why you feel the way you do.
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You should explain how you feel about your relationship with her; she deserves to know why you feel this way and this prompts an opportunity for mutual agreement with the relationship. Don't just leave her high and dry and don't just leave her cold turkey without any reasoning!