I didn’t have my first kiss until age 20…is that pathetic
This might sound silly and it’s related to my low-self esteem. Just about everyone I know had their first kiss as a teenager. But I feel like, “Who would date a guy that didn’t even kiss until he was 20?”.
It's not a race. Everyone lives life at their own pace and if it didn't happen to you until your 20th, then that's just how it is. You've experienced it and learned from it, no matter when it happened. If you come across anyone who cares about that, then that's their problem, because it's nothing to feel bad about.
No, you are your own person and there's nothing wrong or weird about doing things at different times, or in some cases not at all. Don't let the social pressure or others judgement make you feel like you're less somehow. Perspectives can change a whole lot.