I am not sure if this guy is a jerk or not?

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so this guy I have been seeing a while that i just heard is a big player etc. He seemed like he really did like me and I am trying to piece together if he was just bullsitting me or not. After talking about an issue we had, he was talking as if he could see me in his future by saying that there will be many more trips we can go on, times to share, etc. (still not sure if its sweet talk or not). I think i put him through what most guys would not stick around for when i first met him. I got mad at him recently because he skipped my birthday to hangout with friends and didn’t tell me (after saying he was coming). i told him not to waste my time & tell me ahead of next time so i could invite someone else. I got not reply after and I was really mad and I want to talk with him, but at the same time I’m not sure if i should. I don’t want to seem like I’m desperate for his attention bc i do not regret what i said, but do regret how it ended.

Category: asked August 17, 2015

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Well at the first half of your description I was about to say go for it, but the second part about the birthday thing is a red flag. If he said he was going to come but didn't, and then did not show any signs of remorse about the situation, he was probably intentionally trying to hurt you.
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It sounds like this guy really hurt you when he did not show up for your birthday party and when he hasn't responded to your calls or text. I want to suggest that if you get a hold of him just be honest and tell him what you are feeling. If he doesn't respond back, then know that this guy isn't the one you deserve.