Husband in vegas

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Husband went to vegas with friends and admitted intention to go to strip clubs and not telling me. A few weeks ago discovered he visited a ‘meet people near you’ website and claimed it was a ‘pop-up..clicked on it by accident’

asked August 19, 2013

5 Answers

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take a chill pill and trust your husband..
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Ask him to be honest if he went and/or why he wanted to go, before considering him a liar or cheater. It might not be what you think, however keep your bullshit detector on. There is a good chance the only reason he ends up in a strip club is because his friends drag him into it (one of which could be the unhappy husband, not yours).
I guess it really hinges on your past together, and any indiscretions or attitudes back then that make you think he might be wandering.
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I don't see anything wrong with going to a strip club. As long as my husband isn't sleeping with anyone else I don't see a problem. Sometimes we even go together. As far as the porn site goes, usually those types of things don't pop up unless there is history of going to similar sites. Check the web history or put a key logger on your computer. And lastly, you should trust your husband more than distrust him. Give him the benefit of the doubt unless you have proof.
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Ask him to tell you the truth then trust whatever he says. If he's lying you'll find out sooner or later.
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he is a lier and a cheater .....either pack him up to boot him out when he gets back or you yourself go else where......line up marriage counciling asap if you wish to save what you seem to think is still there.. ....sounds to me like he checked out of the marriage a while ago