Hi I have been married now for 15 years and we have 2 kids and although sometimes we have rough patches we always work it out. Recently my husband has started a new career path and with this new path he is meeting lots of new people. Through his course he meet a woman who has just recently separated from her husband and is starting a new career path herself. They have a few things in common and have started spending a lot of time together. They text most of the time and he goes over there for certain things like he needs to take a DVD over or he needs to pick up something he left there. He does ask me sometimes do I want to come but I think he knows that I will say no cause I have to stay with the kids. My parents are up in arms over it saying that he is disrespecting me and the kids by going over to spend time with this lady and her kids. I am trying really hard not to get worried or jealous. I have spoken to him about it over the last few days. He keeps saying that she is just a friend and theres nothing to it. I said then maybe don’t spend so much time with her and more time with us. He said that we don’t usually talk much to him and she does. And that I shouldn’t be telling him when he can and cant see his friends. She is a very outgoing person and yes I have met her she has come over her a couple of times and she seems very nice and genuine. She is fit whereas I am overweight, she has a lot of things in common with him including being very social whereas I like to just spend time with the family and am not really very social Like generally he has to twist my arm to go out anyway. But he has always known this and never minded in the past. So my question here would be am I overreacting? Should I be letting him have her as a friend and not interfere?
If I could get some feedback/advise it would be appreciated.