How I see myself is more important to me than how others see me simply because they don't know me as well as I do. I know what I think and what I believe and so I judge myself based off that. Others judge me on my appearance or what I say which isn't always accurate to who I am.
i give a lot of importance to what others think about me. and i hate it. i try to be perfect on the outside, and i never let anyone see how i really am on the inside. i act the total opposite of how i feel. but thats just me. hope you are strong enough to act how you really feel !(:
Definately 100% its all about how you see yourself. From personal expierience, I cared alot about how particular people viewed me in the past, and those were some of the worse, sickening feelings. Now that I see myself in a whole new light and I am confident in myself and my abilities, I am so happy and feel so blessed. I feel like the people I want in my life are attracted to me more so than before. So thats my opinion :)