Definately 100% its all about how you see yourself. From personal expierience, I cared alot about how particular people viewed me in the past, and those were some of the worse, sickening feelings. Now that I see myself in a whole new light and I am confident in myself and my abilities, I am so happy and feel so blessed. I feel like the people I want in my life are attracted to me more so than before. So thats my opinion :)