I have a 1year old and he is very demanding and even though I love him more than anything in the world, I don’t think I could cope with another child. We always planned to have two children but I had a horrible pregnancy ( was sick constantly day and night for 4 months then had agonising rib pains the rest) the thought . Of going through that again and not been able to look after my son properly scares me. I have small anxiety attacks when I think to much about it. I have told my partner a bit of how I feel and he said he would have to leave me and find somone who would as it means so much to him. Should I wait and see if I feel different or should I tell him now?