how to tell partner you dont want another baby?

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I have a 1year old and he is very demanding and even though I love him more than anything in the world, I don’t think I could cope with another child. We always planned to have two children but I had a horrible pregnancy ( was sick constantly day and night for 4 months then had agonising rib pains the rest) the thought . Of going through that again and not been able to look after my son properly scares me. I have small anxiety attacks when I think to much about it. I have told my partner a bit of how I feel and he said he would have to leave me and find somone who would as it means so much to him. Should I wait and see if I feel different or should I tell him now?

Category: Tags: asked July 21, 2013

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Thank you for all of your opinions. I would never have a baby if I was not ready so he would have to make his mind up. But I think I'm not going to think about the future just yet, just enjoy being a mom to my beautiful boy. Hopefully he will be more independent and I will want another baby just as much as I wanted him. But if not then I will just concentrate on being the best mom. Thank you again for making me feel I'm not a terrible mom for not wanting more baby's =)
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I know it's wrong but I remember how much I wanted my son and if he feels like that then I feel he would be better off. I just worry that if I tell him now and split up my family and then in 3-4years time time I want to have another baby then I would just ruined everything to nothing.