How to tell my girlfriend I love her?

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Every time my girlfriend tells me she loves me , I’m always so hesitant to tell her it back. There was a point in time where she would say “I love you” and I would just say “Same.” It’s hard for me honestly, and I know I may not be in love but I like her a lot. And when I say I love you , I don’t mean in love.

Category: asked April 13, 2015

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Nothing wrong with that, it might be the fact that you are not ready for a relationship or simply like you mentioned, you don't love her yet. There might be reason for that, maybe because you don't know her that well for you to make that step or because there is something in you that you are still trying to find. Could be emotionally or just simply confused. The right time will come if eventually you continue with her. For me it was fast because i was able to click very fast with my girlfriend. We were the same in so many things and we could understand each other very easily. Remember that the best things in life take time to achieve. Take it at a good paste and just show her that you care for her and eventually it will come out easily. Next thing you know, you will be telling her that you love her so much that she might even get tired haha... But seriously, its OK. I think many people go through that stage, just take it slow and be cool. :) cheers and good luck!
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i feel you men maybe u are not ready yet but u really love her. just enjoy the moment with her remember life goes on.
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when you are ready it will just come out of your mouth with ease. Never say anything that isn't true in the end it could hurt her. Sometimes well most of the time relationships between two people don't work at the same time. like one person might love while the other person really likes. Don't rush love. love is something that is beautiful when someone goes through it. I haven't felt that in a long time but i know whenever i do hear those words or when i say it it will come out with meaning. Dont say it because you might regret it since at the moment you don't feel it quiet yet