How to tell if a boy isn’t interested anymore?

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Awhile ago a boy who I thought was really cute told my friend he likes me. He wanted advice from her on how to talk to me. I didn’t know him very well but I was excited because he seemed really sweet and nice. After the weekend I saw him on that Monday (didn’t talk to me), than he was absent for two days, and than thanksgiving break, so I didn’t see him, and now today (didn’t talk to me). Do you think he’s not interested in me anymore? He had many opportunities today to talk to me and he didn’t. Along time has passed since he told my friend he liked me, and I’m afraid he’s moved on. I’m too shy to talk to him first, so that’s not an option. Do you think I should move on?

Category: Tags: asked December 2, 2013

4 Answers

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I don't think you should move on, but when it comes to boys you never know. Maybe he's going through something. Just give him a little bit of time and see if he talks to you. If not, than you may have to move on.
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He's probably too shy to talk to you and is probably freaking out that he told your friend that he likes you. He's probably super embarrassed among other things, freaking out that you know that he likes you. He's probably agonizing over how to approach you, desperately wanting to but terrified that you know and you don't like him back. Put the poor guy out of his misery and talk to him. You don't have to hint at him that you know he likes you, but maybe try to make plans to hang out with him soon - go see a movie or something. Try to make it just him and you but if he seems nervous offer to invite some other friends - this will help reassure him that it isn't a date and he'll panic about it less.

If he doesn't seem to want to talk to you and turns down hanging out with you and/or your friends several times, he might not be ready to take on a relationship and he might not be interested in it right now. If that's the case, don't feel guilty about moving on.

Good luck!!
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I am a boy and I know about these things. Don't hate me if I get this wrong but this exactly what I feel. He really likes you and thinks you are cute. He is shy about approaching you so it slips out to your friend in a moment it slipped out that he likes you. I would not move on so soon because this will only push him away. I think you should go and make some sort of move on him. DO NOT JUST LOOK AT HIM WHEN YOU SEE HIM. I would go talk to him but act as if you didn't hear that he likes you. I'm really keen on this stuff. I have felt it before and went through it.
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Send 3 messages, that's the limit. But after that if a guy doesn't chase you when you walk away, keep walking honey