How to stop being insecure

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Help, so lately I’ve been feeling a lot of mixed emotions most negative and about a week ago I sat down and tried to figure out why I was acting so strange. In the end i realized that I am extremely insecure; I’ve been hiding all my emotions even from myself to make sure that no one see them and now they have all been weighing now on me for so long. I don’t trust anyone anymore, I’m not in a relationship and have been talking less and less with my friends, because I’m afraid of what they will think of me. So I guess what I’m asking is how can i get myself to be more honest with myself and others and be less insecure.

Tags: asked December 28, 2013

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Insecurity is unfortunately one of the most difficult things I have ever had to overcome, the best thing that you can do to overcome it is to start accepting yourself. It may seem like a hard and long process but I can promise that it's worth it!If you ever feel trapped or just need to vent always talk to someone because it helps tremendously. Pushing your friends and family away is only going to hurt you, and they may not show it often but I'm sure they're always there for you and you should definitely confide in your family and/or trustworthy friends.
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really just accept yourself and surrender to love in your life. you can do it !! life is here to be lived FILLED with HAPPINESS, LOVE, ACCEPTANCE OF SELF, and so much more. it is in your hands and only you can truly do it for yourself! c:
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Well first of all, it does not matter what they think of you, just be yourself. Unless you have an insecurity problem, which you apparently have, so you need to go back to your original self without hiding your emotions.
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i try but i don't even know myself sometimes, it's so hard to tell what is real and what i am just saying/doing to fit in.