How to Move On?

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I was in a relationship for 3 years – it was the first relationship I was in. The relationship ended because he pulled away and stopped communicating. Due to other circumstances, I had to move back to help care for my elderly grandparents. He contacted me 2 months after we broke up with an apology, explanation, and a desire to repair the relationship. We have been repairing the relationship for a year and nothing has really morphed except that I have my best friend back. In our initial “reconciling” he stated that he did want to get back together if I was open to it. At the time I wasn’t certain, but said I was open to it in the future. However, he won’t open up when I bring the subject up.

I don’t want to be hung up on this person forever when he obviously doesn’t see me as anything but a friend. But how do I get over him? Time isn’t working; I’m still very much in love with him.

Category: Tags: asked September 21, 2013

2 Answers

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love is a very mysterious thing but if this person has left you then they obviously don't deserve you, there is someone else out there just waiting for someone like you to stroll into their life. its hard to let go and believe me at that, but i can tell you that there is someone out there that you will sweep them off their feet because you are worth it. and with time you dont always get rid of love actually you cant its something that will always remain if its true but there is someone out there that is waiting for you and when you find them it will be that person who is the love you've been looking for
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Start going out and doing things you enjoy. Things that make you happy and doesn't remind you of him. You have to start investing your time I. Yourself. The busier you are the less you'll think of him and in no time, you're in a different mind state.