he was my boyfriend for more than a year and i broke up with him because i realized the relationship is not doing anything good to me. i loved him but the way he treated me, completely changed it. i learned to lie over and over again because i felt so deprived of my freedom and privacy as an individual. he opens my facebook, opens my phone. he doesnt want me to hang out with my friends. he’d text to check what im doing and calls if i couldnt reply immediately (imagine the stress he adds up when im busy at work). he asks every morning about my attire. he dislikes the idea of going to mall without him. like it could take me forever to enumerate the stupid things he does and i am so done with his irrational possessiveness.
i am very patient. and i would ALWAYS talk and explain to him why he is being irrational everytime we argue about stupid stuff. and i would beg for him to at least widen up his mind and not to repeat the things he does to me because i am very much aware of what could happen once im worn out.
so we did reached that point. i broke up with him last month. and until now, he has been really persistent. he’d visit me at home on weekends or at work without prior notice and pleads to go back to him. but what can i do?i dont feel anything for him anymore and it will be unfair to the both of us if i go back for the reason that i just feel sorry for him. i made it clear and told him in his face that i do not want to go back anymore. he wont stop and its driving me insane. please help!
thanks for taking time to read.