Hello,
Let me Start with saying That I’m A.D.D and that I’m currently engaged to be married with a Man That is Manic Depressive Bipolar.
My other half and I have been engaged for almost a year, and let me tell you. Its been one hell of a ride. we’ve been very happy together, but theres been some days where my fiancée has been… extremely in the dumps, due to his lack of medication. hes been out of work for almost 7 months now, and a lot of people ask me ,”why are you still with him?” well im sorry, you don’t give up on the person you love. I guess my question is, how do I deal with him when he’s having his bad days? I feel like if I leave him alone, im not actually helping him. but if I smother him i’m annoying him… its hard because my A.D.D there is seriously no middle ground. I love him so much, and I want to make this work… but I’m sick of feeling like the bad guy.