If you are referring to small talks, I think if you come out more interested on the other person, rather than focus on whether they would like what you would say, I think it will reflect back. People usually like people who likes them. Or think of conversing as giving a little bit of yourself to the other person. Which as I like to put it, letting them in on your quirks. It can turn out to be fun if you think of it that way. When you walk away from a conversation, if there's anything you should regret about, don't let it be "I could have said this instead, that's definitely better that my boring response." Things that could've left the other person feeling better than when you found them or prior to the conversation, those things maybe it's more worthwhile to feel kind of bad about. Hopefully it will make you be a better next time on another conversation. Also, get used to silences when you are talking with another person. Don't overthink what they're thinking. At the same time, don't jump into responding faster than before you could process what the other person just said. So I would say, it's almost always about being a better listener. Maybe if you think about why you are having this conversation, then it would ease up your mind against superficial results. If you came to talk to enjoy the other person's company, then enjoy the other person's company. If you came to talk to make them like you, well.. as someone else has put it on this site, that is outside your control. But if it's about convincing them about something you strongly believe about, maybe a little bit more preparation is required with that. Goodluck.