How to get rid of a crush?

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I’m female, 22 and in a polyamorous relationship. I have two boyfriends, one I have been with for 4 months (lets call him partner A) and one for a year and 6 months (Lets call him partner One). I have a huge crush on one of Partner A’s friends. He is Partner A’s housemate’s boyfriend. They are in an open relationship.

I can’t ignore this guy, I can’t just get over it by never seeing him again because he’s often visiting his girlfriend when I am visiting my boyfriend. He is also pretty good friends with my boyfriend.

I’ve had this crush for 3 months now and it’s not going away.

How do I stop going weak in the knees everytime I see the guy.

Category: Tags: asked March 28, 2015

1 Answer

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I don't completely understand your situation, but (at least in my experience) crushes don't really go away. The only times my crushes have really ever gone away was when I found someone better, or realized the person was completely wrong for me. Or some other big turn off.