I’m female, 22 and in a polyamorous relationship. I have two boyfriends, one I have been with for 4 months (lets call him partner A) and one for a year and 6 months (Lets call him partner One). I have a huge crush on one of Partner A’s friends. He is Partner A’s housemate’s boyfriend. They are in an open relationship.
I can’t ignore this guy, I can’t just get over it by never seeing him again because he’s often visiting his girlfriend when I am visiting my boyfriend. He is also pretty good friends with my boyfriend.
I’ve had this crush for 3 months now and it’s not going away.
How do I stop going weak in the knees everytime I see the guy.