how to get over this feeling?


im finally over the thought of being with my ex now. but i still feel like i need to try to be his friend. even after all the hurt he caused

Tags: asked November 15, 2014

2 Answers

Do you feel that way because you want to be his friend, or because you feel like it'll make you a bad person if you aren't? Either way, the most important thing here is your health and happiness. It sounds as though you've already made great progress in no longer thinking of being with him - this is just the next step, and like those other feelings it will pass in time. Just remember that you don't owe him anything, especially if he hurt you - not your time and not your friendship. It may be difficult, but the best thing you can do is to try not to think of him.
It's your choice whether or not you keep contact with someone who has hurt you.Only you can decide what's right for you. Personally....I would consider the split a blessing and move on.