How to get over someone

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Hi well ok, I like this guy who I’ve been friends with for quite some time. Sometimes I think he might possibly like me back but he will never do anything and he’s really intelligent/intuitive so I get the feeling that he knows I like him lol maybe i’m just obvious who knows? But anyways he wont really ever like me back and I need to get over him fact I think I should just take a break from guys in general have a eat pray love moment. Also my friend liked him and he was really awful to her I don’t want that to be me I just want us to be simply friends. So advice would be lovely gracias!

Category: asked December 8, 2014

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There's Actually No Real Way To Get Over Someone Manually, You Just Have To Wait Until Both Your Mind & Body Get Used To Not Having That Person Around. But You Could Listen To Songs About Independent Woman, & Happiness Sing Dance Hangout With Friends Basically Do Things That Make You Happy! It Should Speed The Process Up :) Hope It Workers For You!
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It takes a lot of time to get over someone most especially if that person is the constant content of your thoughts. Personally, what works for me is a good distraction. Do something you're passionate about or learn something you're really interested with, so it'll take most of the space in your brain. If you're an active person, do sports, run like there's no tomorrow or learn circuit training, barre or yoga from tutorial videos available in the net. You can also do easy recipes from the net if that's your piece of cake. Make plans with your closest friends-sleepover, play board games/any sort of games, DIY spa, go to a free event etc. Educate yourself by watching TED Talks from Youtube, and take notes. Think of a goal, even if it's just a short-term one then align your actions to it.The key to keep yourself distracted from thoughts of him is by always being on the move and occupy your mind with thoughts that don't involve him. Find something else to pour your heart into then hopefully one morning you won't yearn for him as much as you used to. It worked for me. Hope it works for you too.
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I once heard a guy telling me, guys can sense very well from miles away which girl is into him. So I guess in your case probably he knows that you like him and if he isn't doing anything about it, don't waste your time girl. Honestly I think for your case you can get over him by putting on some effort to distract yourself. I managed to distract myself and live a better life after moving on from an unpleasant guy that I liked for about 2 months. What do I do? I deleted his number and everything of him, thank god I don't have to see him on daily basis and I try to avoid going to places that he might turn up (sadly I know and remember his schedule).. I go to websites and researched a lot of articles for self improvement and self value, and just read on how to know or sense if a guy likes you and things like this, it really helped me a lot on having a better mindset and be even more determined on my decision. Eventually he came back to talk to me and it was another bigger effort on me that I said 'NO' to him and move on, knowing that he does no good to me. So good luck girl, stay cheerful and you can do it!