Friendships are complicated, and like many, they end. I know for me, getting over a friendship was pretty hard, considering how long we'd been friends.
I remember digging myself into a hole and blaming myself for everything. Please, save yourself the time. Don't do that. It's not your fault. Even if you contributed to the "breaking up", don't crush yourself for that.
If you did contribute to the split, take responsibility for your part. If they don't believe you, that's on them, not you. You are not responsible for their actions, only yours.
Another thing to do is take time. There will be unavoidable drama. Just say no. Walk away. Don't immerse yourself in everyone els's problems. People will talk to you about it, and it is your job to stay away.
Finally, seek closure. This time will eventually pass. It is going to be ok, and the world has not stopped spinning. It is not your fault. This will go away, and if you took care of your part, there is nothing more to do about it. Don't give them the cold shoulder and act like you're all that, but move on. It's not your problem after you've taken care of your part.Remember, good friends will come back and stay. Stay strong.
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