How to get over a comment?

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I don’t have many close friends, but a person I consider very close made a hurtful comment a couple of weeks ago that still haunts me. She said about me, “She has such a rotten personality that nobody likes her.” She may have meant it as a joke, but I think that whatever you say out lout is based on what you subconsciously think. What hurts me the most is that she said out loud what I feared in silence: people in general don’t like me. This is killing me…I don’t know how to move on after this comment.

Category: asked September 21, 2013

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I'd say you should bring it up with her- see what she says first. Try not to dwell on the comment because if your friends didnt like you, then they wouldnt be your friends if that makes sense. I really do hope its a joke but you should talk to her, make sure shes honest and listen to what she says. Not all criticism is a bad thing, use to make yourself happier and this could all bring you closer to your friend.