how to get closer to someone?

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me and my boyfriend talk everyday but i dont really know much about him and its like were not really that close, i mean we text constantly and i know some of his favorite things but idk we just dont seem that close and im kinda scarred to get close to him?

Category: Tags: asked July 7, 2013

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well you should just ask him to hang out in person...maybe when you two are texting play the game 20 questions and really get to know him
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Okay, here's my opinion on things :) (And I know what you mean!)Despite the sad fact that you can't really ask someone to open up to you completely and wholly, the best way is to really ask questions. Have discussions. Share your honest opinion. Don't edit yourself!When something happens to you and it hurt you, say so. Don't say what it is if you're a bit sensitive about it and you don't exactly trust him, but tell him something's up.Make memories together. Laugh. Share inside jokes. Be interested in him.Lastly, know that sometimes someone has to be the action maker. Most people live life thinking: If x does this for me, then I'll do it for them. But what happens is if TWO people share this attitude, no one does anything for anyone.*hugs tight* It's okay to be scared. Normal even. But how much do you want it?