how to feel more confident about my body

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i’m just naturally a very slim person. I’ve been made fun of it all my life and I’m so self conscious about it. I hear guys talking all the time about how much they love women with big boobs and ass but I have neither. How do I started feeling more confident about my body?

Category: asked May 15, 2014

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Don't listen to guys who only look at ya boobs n bum bcus they only want one thing and aren't worth it. Listen to the guys who look into your eyes and at ya face as they're worth your precious time. The fact is we are all different and that's what makes us unique. You shouldn't waste time on what others see as negatives but spend time on you see as positives about yourself. Life is too short to worry what others think because the people who don't think highly of you won't be in your life forever, but you're gonna be in your life forever so thats the best reason to love yourself and everything about you. Don't let the bad thoughts and people drag you down. Everytime you think of something bad about yourself think of two things you like about yourself.
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theres guys who love skinny girls too hun. but you know what, who cares about what guys like.. you need to like yourself. i dont know how old you are but maybe you can buy yourself some nice clothes, you know, the ones you see on the mannequins at stores. something you really really like that will make you feel good. i've always been curvy and if i wanted to wear dresses or certain shirts i felt like i looked to revealing cuz my boobs were popping out or my dress looks way different on me than someone who is skinny. i really think getting some new clothes will make you feel better (;
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Hunny, I'm going to give you the advise I've given myself, and most of my friends. When you get a chance, put on something that makes you feel like a goddess- beautiful, sexy, powerful- your favorite. Spend that extra bit of time on yourself. Then, I want you to strut your self because you know what? You're gorgeous. Take some pictures for yourself, and yourself only for when you feel down and need a 'Hey! I am amazing! Just look at me!' pick me up. And remember, there are always people in this world that are going to think that you are the most beautiful person in this world Some little school boys don't matter in the long run because they're just that. Little boys. <3
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Many girls are jealous of other girls with a slim figure. I personally think slim girls look graceful and attractive, like twiggy for instance. I don't understand guys who are into huge booties and chests (although there is nothing wrong with having those either!). Guys can be insensitive and sometimes make comments about girls "having no booty". Some girls say the same thing. It's because they probably will never be as thin as you, and are trying to make themselves feel better by working what they already have (which is good), the thing they are doing wrong is putting other people down to make themselves feel better. You have a unique beauty and you should just learn how to work that to your benefit. If you are tall, you could do some modeling. I think that slim girls also have it easier when it comes to finding clothes that fit (at least that's my opinion). So you could really go all out with fashion, I know I look horrible in clothing that looks amazing on tiny mannequins. You could also do squats. Honestly, every body type has it's own appeal and you shouldn't feel bad. I'm sure you're gorgeous.
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I used to get made fun of for being naturally skinny too. Most likely, those people are just insecure about their own bodies so try to bring you down with them. The guys who talk about "boobs" and "ass" are shallow and boring. You're not some object. And as someone else said, there are guys out there who find the opposite completely elegant and beautiful anyway. So who gives a crap about what a few of the male population thinks? Embrace what you have but more importantly, embrace the person you are on the inside. When a woman is confident in who she is, that's the most attractive thing.
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Sweety you start feeling more comfortable with your body when you stop listening to everyone else! Not everyone can have big boobs or a big ass and most of them are fake anyways but girl if you got it you got it! You have to seriously work with what you got. There's always exercise or if you have the money surgery. When I wear my make up girl I feel pretty and when I put on a nice dress and heels I feel beautiful. Its always nice to hear that coming from someone else but if you don't feel it yourself then honestly you probably wouldn't have gotten dressed up in the first place. You have to find the beauty within you. Be you be real and be happy girl you deserve it. Everyone deserves it!