I’m getting to the state of hating holidays because of how anxious I get because of them.
- I always think that I must do something in the holiday because that’s what all people seem to do ( travel to a cool place, travel to family or gather with friends.
- I get invited to social gatherings where I don’t know lots of people and I have to meet lots of people who I don’t know and be able to socialize and this gets me really anxious.
So the result is always either go to a gathering and be anxious and not enjoy my time or stay at home and not being able to relax because I blame myself for not doing something cool.
Do you guys have any advice on how to handle such situations ?