how to deal with break up

The best way to deal with a break up like this is to not constantly think of them, this will only make you more sad and you do not want that. For me I spent more time with my friends and started getting more involved in school, sports, clubs etc. Even though you love them you need to respect that they do not want you in their life anymore and as painful as that thought it sadly, you have to accept it. Rather than feeling bad about yourself and wondering what you did wrong focus on you and better yourself as a individual.

Find things to take your mind off it, go out with friends, do some work you've been putting off, take up a new hobby?

Give tings time , Time apart can open your eyes , even though u love him try and stay strong ,All the best

I am so sorry for the pain you're in. In my opinion, love alone is not enough for a relationship -- compatibility matters. I have loved people I could never be in an intimate relationship with again; it just did not work. Doesn't mean I don't love them -- just means we are not right together as a couple. Sometimes it was the guy who recognized this before I did; it's painful, I know. While you're recovering from the blows to your heart, I agree with Linc's advice about finding other spots of joy in your life to focus on. Best wishes!