How to cope. ..

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So, my fiance’ was involved in the jail explosion, and i haven’t heard his voice since, and lately i’ve really needed him, and i just can’t stop crying. I want to know things will be okay, and hear it from him. His voice, his words..

Category: asked May 3, 2014

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The best encouragement I can offer is to hang in there and take things one day at a time. Also, I know when I'm upset, I like to get outside and do something to keep my mind off of the things that are stressing me out. Whether it's surrounding myself with friends or taking my dogs for a walk, it usually helps me to be active. And at night, I keep a book by my bedside and get lost in the pages until I'm ready to get some sleep. Of course, what works for me doesn't work for everyone, but it really can't hurt to try exercise and reading if you haven't already. Hope this helps!
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You have a bright future ahead, you still have chances to meet new people in life, Why need bare a burden of "commitment" and risk yourself in something illegal? You're a teen, and you should enjoy your life like how a teenager should be, College, innocent girls chat, 1st crush, puppy love, parties, sleepover and so on !!! you should learn to let go and love yourself.
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You stupid little girl. You're sixteen and your apparent "fiancé" is in jail, doesn't that tell you something? You're wasting your life and you're getting yourself involved with a criminal. What on earth are your parents saying to you? If you're going to be in a relationship then at least ensure it's someone respectable with a good head on their shoulders. If you have any common sense at all, you'll get out of that relationship ASAP and forget about him PRONTO!!! For once in your sad miserable life, use your head.
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I dislike the fact that people are calling the OP stupid. It's her life and she can do what she wants, at the moment she has a problem, she needs help getting over it. You have to ask yourself whether you love this person enough, are you sure he is the right one? If he hasn't contacted you, then maybe it's a sign that he isn't as interested in you as you thought. There are plenty of people out there, you want to make the best of your life, not take steps backwards and get involved with trouble. You need to get out of making the same mistakes, because if you don't, then I don't think you're life would be as enjoyable. Think about the things you really want to do, that make you happy. Places you want to go and hobbies you want to do, there's no point worrying about love just yet. You'll find that people change, by the time you're 18 you probably would have moved on by then, because he probably won't be the same person once he comes back out of jail.
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I think that love comes in many ways and with different people. I do think that people who are in prison/ jail make mistakes. Never judge anyone because of a mistake that they have made. I hope that you hear from your fiancé and that everything is ok. If you need to talk please feel free to contact me. We all need to love one another no matter what.