I dislike the fact that people are calling the OP stupid. It's her life and she can do what she wants, at the moment she has a problem, she needs help getting over it. You have to ask yourself whether you love this person enough, are you sure he is the right one? If he hasn't contacted you, then maybe it's a sign that he isn't as interested in you as you thought. There are plenty of people out there, you want to make the best of your life, not take steps backwards and get involved with trouble. You need to get out of making the same mistakes, because if you don't, then I don't think you're life would be as enjoyable. Think about the things you really want to do, that make you happy. Places you want to go and hobbies you want to do, there's no point worrying about love just yet. You'll find that people change, by the time you're 18 you probably would have moved on by then, because he probably won't be the same person once he comes back out of jail.