There’s this guy I like and he likes me back and it just got me wondering how would I bring him home for the first time. Like do we hangout there or go out somewhere? I’ve never brought anyone home to meet my parents before. (I’m 15) My parents are the kind of people who would want to meet him right away but I’m not sure I want that. How long should the relationship be to bring him home?
Depends how old you are. If your parents have a rule that you need to bring someone home to be able to date, then just do that. It's not about you - it's about the guy. They want to know that he's not a creepy 50 year old dude scamming on their daughter. Under normal circumstances, I'd say go out on 3 dates with him and see how it goes...if it ends up that you guys have nothing in common and you don't go on anymore dates, then that's that. But if you go on a few dates with him and things go well, then I'd bring him home and introduce him. You don't need to hang out with your parents. Just have him pick you up at home, come to the door, introduce himself (maybe bring some flowers for your mom?), and then go on your way.
Bab has been busy today. I agree, and like how they didn't have him stay for dinner instead go on your way. Nothing more awkward than eating with the family, at;east if it's your first time meeting them..
dont you fell like your parents don't trust your judgement then if they say they want to meet him, like as if they are verifying him for you, because you wouldn't know who is a decent person and who isn't? I'd feel insulted. Why don't you just hangout together but not tell your parents he might become more of than a friend, and when YOU are ready, intro him to your parents, if at all. That's what I'd do. I mean you can do that all safely, even if you don't know the guy well. You could just stick to public places for the first few times. What are your parents going to pick up on when they meet him that you haven't already, in the time frame that they have in comparison to you?
Actually, once i've read a book and two kids met, so the guy invited the girl over to his house to watch a movie and meet his parents. ON THE FIRST DAY THEY MET. I know it's just a book, but I mean if you think about it.. it sounds like you actually want to take this thing going on between you two seriously, right? it also means you trust him enough and know he will act right in front of your parents. That's a really good start to a relationship i think. :) good luck.
Bring him home to meet your parents. You don't want to start a relationship out by hiding it from your family, plus they might notice things you don't about him. I would give so much to go back in time and listen to my mom's advice on guys I brought home. She was (annoyingly) always right about them.