How to be more social

Im done with looking at all my friends having fun with other people and being all alone. How the hell do you socialize im not even kidding i cant. I go on like snapchat or something and i see my friends hanging out with each other and stuff , the other day i asked my friend if she wanted to see a movie with me and she was already going with another group of friends and in the end i went to that movie all alone. Whenever i ask my ‘friends’ to hang out they turn me down but hang out with other people and i cant really hold a conversation for that long.Im going into highschool this september i really need help guys i need friends my depression is really starting to worsen because of this im tired of hearing ” well you need to be more social hun’. I mean i try but people tend to get bored of me. Yea i might be over weight and dorky and such but im still human .-. this stuff really gets to me any ideas on how to be more social or get people interested into talking to me
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asked July 22, 2014

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Totoru

2 Answers

Try finding some people that have the same interests as you, whether it be games, movies, sports whatever. Finding someone with the same interests and hobbies can give you something to bond over, and you'll have more things you can do with them

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MaRiSsAaNnE

I understand fully! I have had ( and still do occasionally) this same issue. Its a really tricky situation to work through. There really is no sure fire way to get through this except to keep trying. Finding people with similar interests help so accesorize to show your interests, it might attract like minded people. As for your current friends try(if you don't allready) keeping in communication with them either through social media or texting, by keep in contact I mean like every or everyother day, it doesn't have to be a full convo just a hey how's it goin kind of conversation. I hope this helps a little. ( these are the things I've done myself so good luck)

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Gigobyte

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