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You know what is the best thing about life -its unexpectedly unexpected it doesn't matter what is to come 'cause whatever is out there, one way or the other you will have to deal with it. and when the time will come, you will know what to do. It's pointless to be scared, you see its not about living in now but its about letting the chips fall where they may and stop controlling things. that's how you stop being afraid. Hell i planned a lot, lot of things before they happened and anyhow they happened as they would have and if i learnt something out of it, then ya. i stopped trying to control everthing and deal with everthing as they came on me. and ya i have felt a lot safer and sure and not terrified that way.

I think the best thing to do to avoid these things is to really focus on your education and make sure that you already have a bit of work experience. If you are in college having a degree will make it way easier to get a job and keep one. Make sure you also have a support system so if you ever do end up in a rut there will be people there to help you out. Also be careful using credit cards, a lot of people get into debt because they don't pay off their credit cards. And make sure you keep track of your money and make smart purchases, paying your bills comes before buying new clothing. Overall, sometimes things do happen unexpectedly, but you can take steps to prevent bad things from happening, also, don't stress too much, chances are you'll be okay.