How long should you wait till you drop the L bomb

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Do you really think someone can love you after spending a hold day talking about almost everything. What do you think when someone tells you they love you after only a few days. Do you think it is real. I haven’t been in a relationship for almost 5 years and im a little rough around the edge since all my relationship have ended because they were unfaithful. But it is hard for me to believe guys because of that trust issue I have. but this guy Im currently seeing told me he loved me its only been a few days but I ccan’t help to think he is for reals. Can someone fall in love with someone in just a few days

Category: asked May 17, 2015

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You spoke words that described me down to a T, like you I am rough around the edges, extremely for that matter. Growing up with an old style of thinking and a family who also had the same style of thinking, I am often at conflict when someone says they love you only a few days into a relationship. I was sort of a watcher when i went to school, and I seen this situation many many times and nine times out of ten I have to sadly admit that they are just saying it because it makes them feel good or they are trying to get something. Whatever that something maybe I don't know in this case, it varies from person to person. With that said do i believe someone can fall in love with someone in just a few days yes I can say it can happen, but its very rare when it comes to being sincere. It very well could be he falls in love too quickly I know I had a time where I did that myself, when you want so bad to love someone that you fall in love with a person very quickly wanting the world with them. Just try to talk to him, Gauge the feelings, and try to find your answer. As for how long you should wait, that depends on how you both feel about each other, there is no true time limit, thats all up to the ones feeling the connection.