My SO and I have been dating almost a year and a half and everything is going well. Originally, we planned to be living in the same area (not living together yet) by the Summer of this year. Plans have changed, and we have no definite timeline for when we’ll be in the same area. I don’t want to break up with them, but the plan was always for them to move to where I am, and I don’t want to give up the area I love, even though I love them, but think I might have to so we aren’t long distance forever. My question is: How long do I wait before I say enough is enough and move to them, or decide on a new area together? Should I just wait for us to live here?