Hey, I’m a male Japanese guy and was wondering if I can get along with girls or find a right girlfriend who is from another country out of Japan. I’m not sure I can find a girlfriend from another country because 1) I’m Japanese and I might be seen as less attractive because of my race, 2) I’m Japanese and I talk less when I have to talk in English. It’s no doubt difficult for me, 3) I’m less attractive as a man than any other attractive men in the world in general. I can’t figure out why girls seem to ‘avoid’ me and become less talkative. Is it common thing for girls when talking to boys? Well, I’ve never had a girlfriend before, and also I’ve never had so many friends that are male, either. I recently go to parties in Japan, where many foreign people come and talk, but I’m too shy to talk to new people. I just want to know if I Japanese can also have a girlfriend who is attractive and comes from another country. Any tips?
I understand that you feel insecure especially towards foreigners, but you shouldn't put your shyness above you to avoid talking or to avoid talks from people. People will always talk, they will always have prejudices towards asians, or africans, or more, it's up to you to change their point of view. Who cares if you don't have an anglish accent, I personally think that each person who tries to learn and study a language (even if we're talking about english) and work really hard for it, it won't matter if he/she has a good accent: she/he's putting a lot of effort to talk, and this is enough. You already write a good english, so take a deep breath, look at the group you want to enjoy, hear a little what they're saying, and enter the conversation with your point of view.
It's not that the girls are avoiding you, but just like everyone, they prefer to chat with a talkative person, so be confident! Utada Hikaru managed to marry an italian, you can reach the same goal if you want. Good luck!