How do you survive?

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I got my heart broken a few days ago and the pain is getting worse and worse everyday. I feel useless and hopeless. I’ve been praying day after day, night after night for it to go away but nothing. I’m close to taking the pain away myself by self harm and possibly taking my own life if this doesn’t go away soon. I need help to get this pain to go away quickly. Please. I need help.

Category: Tags: asked April 22, 2014

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Hey, I just went through this and I asked the same things. I had the girl I was dating cheat on me with her best friend and my best friend. I didn't know what I was doing, I didn't want to exist and I considered ending it. I had a friend make me stay at his place and he watched me until he felt I was fine and I'm actually friends with all three people in this situation. You need positive vibes and positive thoughts. I know its hard but someone on here gave me the same advice. Make a positive mantra. It's something you will have to think of and honestly all it is, taking a simple phrase/chant that makes you happy and repeat it everyday. Find people that make you feel positive, try not to linger on the bad its really hard but possible and don't do anything bad to yourself its not worth it.
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Find the space within yourself that is empty and free. Your feelings are like visitors, allow them in, observe them and then allow them to pass. They will soon ebb and fall away in time. Everyone has went through what you're going through right now, and many of us will again. Know that in time you will feel at peace again. Everything that occurs in your life occurs for a reason, to either teach you a lesson, make you stronger, or prepare you for times ahead from which you can use this experience, the memory of these feelings, and in the future, knowing how you coped and managed to pull through this, will bring you great comfort. You will know that you are strong! Stronger than you can even imagine right now. You have in you the light of the world, you are a living human being with as much right to be here as everything else in the world. You heart isnt broke, your heart can never break, it still has so much love to give to the world, start by giving a little to yourself. Keep your chin up strive to be happy.Shaman.
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It takes time to heal. Your only got your broken so you can find some someone even better. I know that's hard to believe right now, but trust me. What's meant to be will be.
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Look here, don't you dare let that pain take over you. You must feel stressed out to the bottom of your own heart.You MUST DO SOMETHING. It takes time to heal something that has hurted you,so there is no need to rush.Even if you choose to forget about something,that pain is going to still throb until you get over it. I understand it must be very difficult for you to get it out of your head.If you never had pain or a problem then you aren't really living life.I can't really tell you much of a soulution,but think WHAT YOU want to happen! If it is fading away then think,WHY DID I HELD ON SO LONG? Fight back your emotions and start fresh! Don't forget about the things that bring you happiness.Take it easy there and start to forgive the things that has happen,even if is painful.
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This will sound like a cop out, and a cliche response, but it really is all just about taking time to heal. Trust me, it really does get easier. It might take months, or years, but eventually the pain dulls, and you're able to go through your day without thinking of them.