how do you nicely get a gay guy to stop hitting on you?

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I am 16 and the person that is gay is 19. he keeps calling me hot and stuff on the phone and it makes it wired every time i see him. i have told him that i am not gay but he keeps coming on to me. I want to be nice about it

Category: asked May 7, 2014

5 Answers

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"Thanks, I'm really flattered but I'm not interested" If he doesnt stop making you uncomfortable then it's harassment and you get help, especially because you are under age.
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Try to keep telling him nicely that you are not interested. If he doesn't stop, ask him directly to stop hitting on you. If he still doesn't stop, consider getting advice from a third party in your life, or ask someone you trust to say something to him.
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Here's what you need to do. Confront him, big time. And tell him that yes, you are more than happy to take a compliment, but you are NOT interested. You are not a homosexual, your sexual preference are women and women ONLY. Tell him you will not be able to continue this friendship if he doesn't stop hitting on you. Honestly, it's a respect of personal space and you have nothing against gay men.Simple as that. You really need to tell him, just like that. If he doesn't get the picture, don't continue to speak with him.
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Tell him how you honestly feel :3 he'll pry be a little embarrassed at first but he'll appreciate the honesty. There's not great roundabout way to deal with it. Just be honest :)
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say, "Hey, I'm flattered, but I assure you I am not interested and I never will be... can we please just be friends?"