How do you get over a guy who cheated on you?


The thing is, I met this guy on the internet. We were like good friends when he started crushing on me. It didn’t take long to fall on love with him. So, we dated. He lives in a different country, yet still, I loved him.
One day, after dating him for two months, he messaged me, that he cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend (who had a girlfriend at the time, too)
I broke up with him and we haven’t talked since that day. I went to his tumblr blog today (as I do almost everyday) to see that he has a new crush already. She’s freaking 16. I thought I was really young for a 23 year old, but damn.
He wasn’t even sad after we broke up though. Like, usually when he feels bad, he posts it, dramatic, depressed posts. But here; none.
I don’t know how to get over him.
How do you stop loving your first love?

Category: Tags: asked October 16, 2014

3 Answers

This is the hardest thing to do. Don't let yourself go onto any of his social media; you're just torturing yourself. Focus on whats important: you. Get into your new hobby, try and do better in school, make new friends, get closer with old friends, exercise. Because you're important; thinking about someone who lied to you and who doesn't care..he doesn't even deserve to be in your thoughts. It's extremely love and obviously it will take time to move on. But thats okay. You're not alone :-) If you need anything, or need to talk, feel free to leave me a message. Everything will be okay in time.
There is one thing that works fairly well. Time does heal all wounds, but when you love someone it could be months or years before you're ever truly over them. If you find another guy and you fall in love with him that would help, but I don't think you would want to do that since you just got out of a relationship. If you wanna talk PM me, but the only thing that I can suggest is giving it time.
I was cheated on recently and I can tell you that there is no easy way to get over it. The best thing to do is keep your mind off of it until you heal. Keep telling yourself that someone better will come along and make you feel more special, and won't cheat on you.
It's all about keeping level-headed. Don't let yourself become overwhelmed. Find someone new - that really helps. A LOT.
I hope you feel better soon, but know it'll take a while. If you ever need anything feel free to drop me a message, or post onto Q-n-A. Good luck.