How do you get over a friend? Well, a former friend now.


We were friends for three years. She was like a sister to me. After we got into different high schools she changed. Probobly because she got into the “elite” one. And about three weeks ago we were supposed to meet and she forgot and went out with her other friends. I waited for her all day. But like always I forgave her. Then a week later we arranged to meet again. And guess what? She didn’t show. I called her friend, her boyfriend, her… and since that I haven’t talked to her because I’m mad, but she hasn’t tried to talk to me either. I don’t know what to do. I have problems with anxiety so I don’t think I’m gonna talk to her. It just scares me.

Tags: asked June 23, 2014

3 Answers

It's hard to let a long time friend go, but sometimes it happens. Friends come, and go. Don't let this sadness, and anger fester in you. Try to talk to her, tell her how you feel. If nothing works out, try an get new friends. It's hard to make friends, i know, but try.
hi Emily, if you're mad at her, do what you feel like, but if you really want to save the relationship go talk to her. Don't be scared if it doesn't work at, people sometimes change.
Tell her that you want to meet at her place, and that you are upset from her absence from all her other failed attempts to come. Perhaps this is all a big misunderstanding and will be ordered out by a talk.If she leads to something among the lines of 'I do not need you anymore' or 'I have new friends', accept that, and say 'Okay, I understand'. It is an important to know how to break up relationships when they can be doing more harm than good.No matter what happens, make sure you talk to her. We often make little stories and explanations for things we do not know/understand.