How do people see me?

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I would die to find out what my friends and other people are thinking about me. Am I pretty, nice, smart, skinny, fat, too skinny, too fat, too weird, too complicate…? These questions are running everyday in my head, esp. the things about my body image… I’ve lost so much weight and everyone is worrying not to have problems because I’m 170cm and 43kg. Okay bye

Category: Tags: asked January 17, 2014

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if you worry what other people think about you then you could start comparing yourself to them and thinking yourself that your not right in the scene that your not skinny enough and that your not pretty enough even though to yourself you should see yourself as perfect or at least strive to. i dont see myself at perfect and most definitely compare myself to my friends but then to calm myself down i just think of the good things in my life and why i dont need to change and that it doent matter what others think of me just what others thinks of me. i hope thi helps and im sorry if it doesnt.
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you shouldn't really worry about what other people think about you because you'll trap yourself there and things just wouldn't be good, but instead just do what makes you feel good about yourself haha tell yourself "I am an amazing person, I am loved, I am cared for. I have friends." because if that isn't true then who are coming home to? who do you say hi to at school/work?(if you are in school/working) hope this helps..
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Caring too much about what others think of you is a common yet destructive problem. It seems unavoidable, for you will always have to think of them, but you need to think of yourself as well. If there is one thing I will tell you, it is to focus on yourself, and reflect on yourself instead of what others think of you. It isn't healthy to constantly be worrying and changing yourself for the possible acceptance of others. Please keep this in mind, and good luck!
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hold your head high, dont worry about what other people think of you, you listen to them you will never go anywhere in life, brush them away , jealous hurts a cat, you keep going and be proud who you have become.Friends are there for you no matter what, they are not there to judge you, so take a leap back and check your good friends and bad friends off your list! have a great day! :)