You need to think positively, if someone shown you his concern or care then you should give it a try trusting him. If he's just pretending for self-sake, then you need to ignore him. It is the effective way to attract those who are real and truthful. The only that matters, on how would you deal with it if it was wrong and how can you still be positive after being manipulated, At least it makes you stronger eventually and at the end you'll find the right ones.