How do i stop making others unhappy?

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I believe that I have trust issues, like pretty bad amount of trust issues. I over think every little thing and I know I make my bf unhappy, or at least I think I do. He always tells me that he isn’t unhappy and stuff and he stays but I think I make him miserable. I don’t want to break up with him because he’s helped me through a lot and our anniversary is in 2 weeks. I want him to break up with me if things get too much for him but I still feel like he won’t. I don’t know what I should do, I wanna make him happy but he claims he is. What can I do?

Category: Tags: asked December 1, 2014

3 Answers

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Trust each other.
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Try to be more open with him, break down the walls that are closing you in. If you think your trust issues are making him unhappy, start to slowly work them out. It won't just benefit him though, it will benefit you too. Trust issues are never fun because it makes you push people away and in turn can make you lonely. Next time you think about thing that you don't want to tell him because your trust issues, tell him. It can be small- in fact, it should be small. That's where you want to start and work your way up to bigger things. If you do plan to do this, telling him that you are would be a brilliant first step. Don't expect to be an open book by next month though, it'll take some time. And that's totally okay. I hope this helps. x
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If a guy tells you, you don't make him miserable then just take it for what it is. Many times I have found that as women we take things and run with them despite what has been said or shown. You really just have to make a choice to STOP stressing about the little things. Your nor alone, your not the only one. Your not the only one with trust issues. Relax that a deep breath and let go of your stress. Enjoy your BF while he is here trying to make you happy.