how do i stay a happy single?

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I realy would like to stay on my own. I just find it soo easy to fall for a guy who is nice to me. It’s embarrasing that i do that i would realy like some practical advice.

Category: asked July 3, 2014

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I used toget all curious at a phrase " i know who likes you" but then one guy friend who liked me said "who cares who likes you i mean it doesnt change anything". I have small crushes too. But i just dont do anything about it =) i mean you can like alot of guys but think if you reaaallly want that person in your life? Then most of the time you will realize you dont. Thats works as great protection hahahaha ^__^ at any rate get into all kinds of activities find new hobbys and interests. Try writing , painting, sports learn new language gain new skills. Strenghen your bond with your friends.
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You have to realize that you are enough and your happiness does not depend of anyone but yourself. If a guy treats you right is because you deserve that, like everyone deserves. You have to hold to your ideals,but if the guy is a nice person, likes you and you like him why not let the feelings flows ? But Slowly, not too fast. You can be happy and single.
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Keep yourself busy and keep in touch with God. :)
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Thanks. I figured that out, and i've evn taken steps towards it, but i guess im just abit scared that when another guy comes along, i'l fall for him again. I actually made sure that any guy i come close to has to be Christian. And the more devoted he is, the faster i end up falling for him. Unfortunatly, some are Christian in deeds, but not in some characters. Unless ofcourse if I'm just asking for too much. :(
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alright, the important question here is not "how do i stay a happy single" the important question here is "how do you stay a happy taken". i know relationships might suck sometimes, but its better than being alone, by yourself, you will eventually get depressed. there is nothing wrong with liking someone who is nice to you :) you just have to be careful so you don't get hurt really often with your childhood crushes, staying on your own seems like a good idea, but after years its really not. i know some guys might be dickheads and use you as a toy, but there are guys that are willing to make you their number 1 priority in their lives and you cant back away from that, it would be very sad. i am not saying that you can't stay off by yourself, but if all i am saying is wait for mister right to come along and make you the happiest girl on planet Earth :)
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Wow. Thak you all so much. The responses are just what i need. I am actually developing my writting skills. Unfortunatly, the editor-in-chief of my school's CMDA(Christian Medical Students) is my latest crush.lol. And here's the thing, i don't actually want to date. I know deep inside that i can't handle it. I'm just not ready, but i always wanted to be inlove and to know that the other person is inlove with me as well.