So, I’ve been in a relationship for almost a year (on July 3rd it will be one year) with this girl I absolutely love. I love her with all my heart, and I can honestly say that right now I feel as if I could spend the rest of my life with her. She recently just moved a couple hours away from me, which is honestly a big change. Going from living 5 minutes away and being able to see her whenever. Which brings me to my first question, is it normal to be very sad? I haven’t been this sad in awhile and it’s getting worse. How can I get over this? She didn’t even bother to talk about this with me, and it happened so suddenly and it’s crushing me. My second question is, well, she’s lazy. She uses her dad’s money for everything and doesn’t do anything for herself. She dropped out of college, she doesn’t have a job and she’s constantly complaining about how she’s stuck under his thumb. I’m trying to stay on the right track but with her goofing off it might be hard. How do I tell her to stop using her dad for money and actually act like an adult?