So October 1st I signed a lease with my girlfriend of 2 years and two of my good friends. The relationship with my gf was rocky but we were working on things, or so I thought, a week later she told me she was leaving me. No real reason or anything, just she wasn’t happy anymore and didn’t want to drag it out. She ended up moving out to her friends place after still staying at the same house and packing for a week. That week was really hard but now it’s over and she’s gone and I am trying to keep my head and deal with things as best I can.
Now the real problem is with my one “friend”… A few months ago his gf left him and he was a wreck. My girlfriend, being the caring sweet woman she is, helped him out was a great friend and shoulder to cry on for him and helped him deal with things. Well now that she’s left me he is always hanging out with her and he even spends the night there sometimes. He claims there is nothing going on between them and they are just friends and that she helped him now he’s helping her and he’s not going to abandon her. I’ve told him it bothers me that they spend so much time together. I still love her and I want her back and I can’t shake the idea that he is really messing everything up and may have even played a part in why she left me, even if unintentional.
What do I do? On one hand I want to believe him that nothing is going on, But on the other hand I want to beat the shit out of him for getting between us and now spending so much time with her… I can’t kick him out because we just signed a one year lease and me and my other roommate wouldn’t be able to afford it but how can I deal with this if I have to look at him every day and know that he might be the one responsible for ruining my life?…