how do i let my girlfriend know I’m not attracted to her anymore?


I’ve been with my girlfriend for about 6 months now and in the beginning me and her vibed so good and the chemistry and sexual attraction was on point, but she has just let herself go. how do i let her know without hurting her cause i don’t want to be an asshole.

Category: Tags: asked June 14, 2014

4 Answers

You've got to give her a chance to take care of herself again. Tell her that you miss seeing her all dolled up and ready to party. That you appreciate having someone who cares about their looks.

After that if she doesn't then you've got to let her know why you're not attracted. Let her know that she's let her self go and you just need someone who's willing to put in the time and effort to stay clean and healthy.
Just tell her the truth.
As you guys have been dating around 6 months, I would suggest being honest with her, ultimately it is her choice, just be supportive.
First off, ouch. Second off, that is very shallow. But not going to lie, I've been there. The best thing to do is to be nice about it and let her down gently. There is no way to avoid hurting her because lets face it, nobody likes to be told that they're unattractive. The least you could do is add positives to breaking up. Don't cut her off right away, but I'd say at least be there. From my experiences, whenever I'd say we could still be friends (and I did try to) everything ended a lot less messy and hurtful. Best of luck.