how do i know if i like someone?

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this guy used to like me, and ended up telling me he loved me but i kept rejecting him and felt pressured when he would talk to me. then we stopped talking for a while and just started coming friends again and now i think about him all the time and i just went out with him and a few other friends and i saw him talking to another girl and i got so jealous! i don’t know what i am feeling because i know if he started to like me again i would probably push him away! i am so confused!

Category: Tags: asked May 17, 2015

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The first impression you get of someone is usually right, and if you felt the need to push him away and had no interest in dating him then, then maybe you should think of the reason for that. Often we become accustomed to the attention people give us rather than the people themselves, sit back and think about if you really like him, make a list of things you enjoy about him, you'll figure it out!
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Often, we, as humans, get so wound up in attention that we simply crave another's attention. That doesn't necessarily define that you like him although you might! Try listing what you do and don't like about him. Why do you want his attention?-should be the question you're asking. Why were you jealous? Make notes as to why you would/n't date him! Maybe you like him maybe you don't. Try really thinking as to why you pushed him away in the past and just started thinking about him often. Hope this helped!