How do I know if he’s turning into a cheating alcoholic?

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My boyfriend has been lying to me lately. Every time i see him he smells like vodka and he won’t tell me who he’s been hanging out with. When i bring anything up he makes me feel crazy….like i’m just imagining things….

Category: asked September 9, 2014

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Regardless of whether he is or is not cheating/drinking, relationships need trust in order to prosper. If he is giving you reasons to not trust him, I think you should communicate how you feel in detail and why it is important that you both are full frontal about these things. If you feel as though things can't change and you can't leave him to his own devices, I would suggest that this relationship may not last in the long-term. Moreso, that the relationship may not be healthy either.
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I agree here with what Open Talk has mentioned.Id like to also say that communication is a big key to long lasting relationships.I think he has a problem and its obvious to you but you need to talk to him in a way that he doesnt feel like he needs to hide anything,but to be honest.If he can open up as to why he is drinking so much,this may be a good start.