How do i get past my best friend?

Hiya Aly,In my experience there could be many possible reasons as to why he hasn't talked to you yet, and since I don't know the situation that well it's hard to know exactly why.

But if you want to be able to get some answers, wether that might be to get closure or to figure out if you're willing to forgive him and value your friendship over this, the best way is to talk to him. When you're ready.

Preferably in a calm and neutral environment with just the two of you there. If he's such a good friend as you think, he'll give you that at the very least.

But, one thing I want you to keep in mind, your number one priority is you and your wellbeing. Make the decision that you are able to deal with.

hey to get over him just think that if he doesn't believe you or trust you he isn't worth your time and this happened to me before where my best friend 3 years didn't believe me on something and to me the best way to get answers and stuff is to ask him when ever your ready but in my opinion i would say to get over him first and so if he's mean or whatever to you,you can be like as if it was nothing. i know friendship is important but depend on what the story is i think you both need to explain your sides of the story he needs to explain where he got his information and where the person who told him got theres and you need to tell him your story and then after that ask your questions on how or why doesn't he believe you and why he believes her. i think in all honesty i think your more hurt on him not believing you then him not talking to you. because i mean when stuff like that happens to you your close friend you get hurt. you matter most though think about how you feel and what you want and if you don't like something then change it. so if you don't like being alone and you want answers then talk to him and say you want to get this straight . i say you work on the who feeling lonely and you find things to cheer you up and make sure like whatever happens you will be okay with and go with the flow. I've had experience in this and since i don't know your situation best advice i can do.if you need anymore help just message me :)

This is really vague in description. What did the sister say compared to what you said? Was it about his girlfriend? A lot of people have a blind spot where their significant others are concerned. Also---don't take this the wrong way---he may have thought that you were just jealous. This is my advice if the issue at hand was about his girlfriend. It could be about a million different things. Otherwise, maybe he is waiting for you to talk to him? Maybe he thinks you are mad at him and he is waiting for you to forgive him and talk to him. I know that you want him to come back to you but sometimes things just don't work like that. As hard as it sounds you might have to swallow your pride and talk to him if you really want to be friends with him again. Feel free to message me if you want to talk about it more. I hope things go well! Good luck! :)

I can't go into detail about what happened because that's not really my story to tell. I can just say what i said. He know's i'm not jealous and im really not. I'm happy for him that he has a girlfriend. Even if it's just starting. I'm mad at him for not believing in me, We've talked and trusted each other for a long time and now suddenly he says he can't believe me over a person that he just met a month or so ago. The last thing i told him was my feelings towards the subject, and then i told him that he needs to come to me when he wants to talk because i wanted to give him some time to think about everything. Maybe he does need more time to think about it. Or he just might not ever talk to me again. It's hard to just wait. And i don't want to just talk to him because i don't want to make things worse. But thank you for your help, I appreciate it (: