how do i get over my ex?

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me and my ex have been done since like august, but i still like him! i dont know how to get over hi cause we go to the same school and we’re still really good friends! i see him everyday and i have such strong feelings for him :/

Category: Tags: asked November 6, 2013

3 Answers

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The only way to really get over an ex is to give it time. :/ There isn't some random way to just get over them. They mean a lot to you, and feelings don't just go away overnight. So, i'm afraid you're just going to have to ride it out. :x It may suck right now, but it'll get easier as time goes on.
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This is my personal opinion, so take it as you will.
I think it is perfectly acceptable to still like your crush. The two of you did date, so that shows that you liked each other enough to move onto the next step. Even though you two broke up and are still friends, you can still have feelings for that person because of all the time you guys spent together. And I cannot guarantee that you will get over him, because you may not, you might though.
Also, because you have feelings for him doesn't mean the only relationship you can have is that of dating. And I am not sure how long you two dated, but it has only been four months, and in retrospect that isn't really long at all. Maybe that fire will die down when you find someone else that you are interested in, again it is a possibility.
All in all don't just focus on the fact that you have strong feelings for that person. If you do have them, being there with them, having fun, should be enough for you. Don't try to go too fast. Remember, slow and steady wins the race.
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I think you just need time and space. It seems like many time people will stay close friends when perhaps the best idea is to have space and then once you are over him and vice versa you guys can be friends.