How Do I Get Over It ?

I can relate to your problem; I recently stopped talking to someone I was living with for around 2 months, whom I dated for a total of 7 months. It's been 3 weeks since the break up happened and it's still fresh in my mind. Unfortunately, there is no quick way to stop the pain. Blaming yourself for the loss of contact won't help you, though, trust me. Dwelling on what you could have done differently doesn't change anything, and will just continue to bring you down. As hard as it may seem now, you have to keep smiling, even when it hurts. Try to do something constructive to keep your mind off of the pain. Take up a new hobby, hang out with friends/family, maybe go to some type of event taking place where you live. Another suggestion I can offer is to try and seek help from a counselor, or even confiding in a family member. I'm sure there are people in your life that would love to help you out! Just remember that you are most definitely not worthless (I noticed the tags you used). You are a wonderful human being, and I know that times seem hard now, but be strong! I hope what I've said to you helps at least a little.

Hey, I've been where you have been. Self-esteem is a bitch to put it bluntly. No one ever has great self-esteem and some people seem to forget that other people have self-esteem problems as well. As for you being "clingy", I've been called that, too. It actually just has to do with who you are. You are most likely a very emotional individual who attaches themselves to others because that's just who you are. That's how I got hurt in my last relationship so don't worry. You are doing nothing wrong but being you and there is nothing wrong with that either. You should find other people to talk to, even if they just listen. Why, if you would like, you can message me if you want. I'm always willing to listen. But be strong no matter what, you will get through this for you are a fighter and those who cry have the brightest smiles.