How do I get over being lonely after a breakup?

Aw you poor thing :/ I'm sorry this guy has hurt you so much. Sometimes its alright to cry so you can find that release and make peace with your situation. Coming out of a break up can be hard but try to see this as an adjustment period to find yourself and what you may want in future relationships (not that I recommend getting into one anytime soon). It can be easy to feel alone when all your friends are flaunting their relationships but sometimes its nice to be single and do as you please. Keeping yourself busy and finding new ways of having fun is the best way to get over a breakup but it takes time. I know it can be hard to pick up the pieces but you are a strong woman who can do anything her heart desires. If you ever feel like your slipping into a dark place think about how amazing you are and the things you've accomplished! Tell yourself, "I'm amazing: I have a job, friends who love me, and a family who cares." "I got this." Also, If you ever need someone to talk to my PM is open whenever you need someone to confide in :) It takes time but I know you are strong enough to overcome this. You got this girl! Good luck <3

You don't get over these kinds of things instantly. Your ex-boyfriend betrayed you on several levels, and that kind of thing takes time to get over. Maybe you need to let yourself feel all that pain and (I imagine) anger before you can begin to get over it. Cry if you need to, but when you're done you wipe your tears off and you keep doing what you've got to do. I know it's not going to help you to hear that he's a jerk for treating you like he is, but that's the truth and it's probably a big part of the hurt. How could someone you loved turn out to be so mean and petty? How could you not have seen this in him? Why did he change? You may never be able to answer those things and you're going to have to learn to accept that. Sometimes people are assholes for seemingly no reason. Maybe one day he'll mature a bit and regret what he's done to you, maybe he won't. There's nothing wrong with your body, even if you are over weight, and that's an incredibly shallow reason to break up with someone. At the end of the day, this is not the kind of person you need in your life. Keeping busy is good, but try not to simply fill your days with busy work to get through the day. Ask your friends to hang out, just you guys with no partners, or spend time with family members that you're close to. It's going to take time, and there will be good, bad, and in between days. You're not going to forget him or how he's hurt you, but hopefully with time the pain will lessen and you'll look back on this relationship as a learning experience rather than a tragedy. Grief, no matter what the cause, is worth attention, and everyone deals with it differently so there's no one way to 'get over this'. You have to learn what works for you, and that only happens with time.

My answer might seem cruel, but believe me: the earlier you experienced boyfriend's betrayal, the better for you. You will get over it, believe me, but it will be you of another, higher level : more experienced in relationships, stronger and wiser. Summer just began - enjoy it! Have a small trip, meet new people, try online dating (OkC, Tinder, https://kovla.com/ ) though you don't want it - it will improve your self-esteem. Sorry, if my reply seemed rude for you, I just want you to feel better! Be happy!

Honey I would find another guy or girl or 5 of each and just have some fun and be glad that you found out that he was an asshole. Don't let being without a boyfriend make you willing to take crap just to have one.