I am a female and I have tried to be very conservative but I have a hormonal imbalance that leads me to have more feelings of sexual frustration. I’m still a virgin but I’m afraid my problem is just getting worse and I don’t exactly know where it comes from other then my hormonal imbalance. So does anyone have a way that they cope with thier unwanted sexual desires?
I can relate! I am still a virgin and Oh my God my hormones don't seem like they want to stop attacking me haha
For me I deal with it with 2 ways, either I go around people that in no way I'll feel sexual towards (like my family) OR I just like go and flirt and just talk sexually, I guess? So I just feel good about it, but not really have sex.
We are all sexual beings, and thats nothing to be ashamed of, virginity is a choice that a person reserves himself/herself for that one special person but it doesn't mean they don't feel lust ,they just have high self control and self preservation i guess. In some ways hormones do affect how we all feel.
You can either choose to feed your lust or choose not to.You can cope with it but its not a guarantee that ones coping mechanism is applicable to you.
i guess one effective way is not to think about it,kinda hard but it means you shouldn't be alone all by yourself too much. well lol that sounds funny. but yeah.. go find someone or people you can share ideas with or laugh at or i dunno watch comedies with. anything that'll block any unwanted feelings.