I REALLY like this guy, and we have SO much in common. He has come up to me more than a few times and talked to me. At first I didn’t admit I liked him, then I did, and then I was waiting for him and his ex to break up, and they did awhile ago. I’ve been thinking about asking him to hang out, not exactly a date but…kind of a date. I was even planning on maybe asking him sometime this week if he wanted to on the weekend if I can get myself to because I’m super shy. The thing is I don’t know what we should do. Typically people go see a movie, but I know he likes to go thrift shopping and so do I. So I was thinking we .could do that and then like eat at a restaurant or something near by but I don’t know if that is too much or what. Any suggestions?
Hey do you want to do something this weekend? It isn't really about how you ask him out, it's about that you do. Grow them lady balls and pluck up your courage. If he's that into you, then he's probably wondering the same thing.
For your first date: Tell him to bring X amount of money (say 10 dollars) and then you have a contest to see who can find the funniest clothes or the best garden ornament or the silliest shoes. I'm more of a funny types, so a romantic person wouldn't want to do this. Just saying. You are a powerful and confident woman. ACTIVATE YOUR WOMANLY POWERS AND ASK HIM OUT.
Just go to him, and say that you need a bodyguard while you go shopping, he will definitely accompany you. If you don't like that approach, just tell him you want to hang out, and if he is nice, he will probably agree. Guys without girlfriends are pretty free you know, so he will definitely be available.
Text/phone him out..if you feel shy to ask him face to face and btw, pay your own bills. guy love less dependant woman and its rude to had him pay for everything on the 1st date, but he insist then its ok. but remember to buy him a gift in return.^^
you doesnt need to plan your schedule for the day, just ask him out for a lunch and then ask him to join you to a place you like most.I think that will do.
Before you part, ask him for another date in the future !!like TheMalapert said,Pluck up your courage girl!